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Who Do You Attract?
June 17, 2008 |
Have you ever paid attention to the kind of people you attract to your life? Not just in a sexual way, but in general. Do you attract needy people, people who want to control you, who are mentors for you or who just need someone to talk to? There are people who seem to attract a particular kind of personalities, and that tells a lot about who they are as a person and what their life values are.
Do people always call you for your opinion or advice? Do they want to know what you think about something or what would do in a particular situation? These people are perhaps slightly low in confidence and rely on you for assuredness, knowing you will make sound decisions.
What about the folks who always call you because they need a favor? They seem to always have a need and need you to fill it. They’re not ALL users, but perhaps the majority of them are. Be careful of these types of people as they are physical and emotional drainers and will likely move on once you have satisfied their need.
Another type of people-attracter: the person who thinks that everything you do is great and wonderful - - and even you know it’s not! These people have a need for affirmation and confirmation and need you to make them feel worthy. Be careful of these type of people as they will give you and themselves a false sense of security. They have a need to hear they’re great, so they tell you that you are not just great but super-great.
Personalities attract a myriad of people that can add to or detract from our own personalities. The key is just being able to identify what types of people you are attracting while protecting your own values.
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