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Strange Tale Of Law Of Attraction And Relationships - Part 2

April 23, 2009 |


Here’s the continuation of my last post on “Strange Tale Of Law Of Attraction And Relationships - Part 1″.

I don’t know about you but have you have had any friends or clients that seems to always be stuck in a ‘victim vibration’? They just keep on attracting abusive partners in their relationships, whether is it romantic or business. Think about it… they think of themselves as victim. And hence they give off “victim” vibration. And guess what? This type of vibration is a match to a potential abuser! A second match to the “victim” vibration is the rescuer. Thus, this is like a triangle with rescuers, victims and abusers forming the tips of the triangle. We know of this as the ‘victim’ or ‘drama’ triangle.

lawofattractionWhat happens in this triangle is that the three roles vibrate and match to each other. When that happens, individuals often get stuck just moving from point to point in the triangle. For example, in one relationship they are the victim and then in another relationship, they may become the rescuer or the abuser.

One commonly seen scenario are troubled youths. They often fall into this trap. They tend to be violent in order to rescue a friend or to avenge a wrong. When they break the laws doing that, they feel that they are victimized by police. And when they are sentenced to custody, they fell like a victim of the justice system. What happens next is that they will begin to talk about getting even (being the offender ), and then blaming others for their situation (being the victim). They will also want to stay with their boy or girl friend to keep them from getting into trouble (being the rescuer). This vicious cycle just keep continuing, attracting the same three matches into their lives…

Of course, there are other variations of this triangle. Often, chronically sick, the very desperate or the needy people, also vibrate matches for people who try to help them or use them in some way.

We attract the matches into our lives with our vibrations that we send out to the universe. Even so, it is our choice whether we choose to engage with them or not - we are in very way responsible for our actions.

Thus knowing all these, we are at advantage. We can use these matches and experiences as powerful information and feedback as to what we are vibrating and attracting. It is how we make use of all these information that matters. Do we engage or not engage, stay or leave? In fact, we should be using this information to move ourselves to a different level of vibration and have the Law of Attraction work in our favor!

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  1. Ian Michael Towers on June 30, 2009 9:31 am

    Great information, clearly and succinctly expressed. Thanks!

  2. Patrice Simmons on July 1, 2009 4:23 pm

    …So what do you suggest as far as how to end this victim mentality? I did not realize I had this mentality. I have been burglarized three times within one year, stolen from,doors kicked in and got involved with an abuser and user but decided -I would not be a victim or think poor me but according to your article apparently I attracted this to myself?




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