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3 Ways to Change Your Destiny
June 24, 2008 |
There are three ways that you can implement today that will and can change your destiny. Yes, I know that some peop
le think that your destiny is pre-set, but what I am referring to is the day-to-day activities that we all do that have an impact on our future, our tomorrow(s). We each affect and control our destiny in several ways; the company we keep, the thoughts we think and the attitudes we have as we live our daily lives. Here I will share with you the three ways that I have personally found that shape and control my own destiny. When I tweaked these areas and made a few minor adjustments, my life took a different turn. I was finally able to see where I wanted to be in life and what goals I needed to set for myself.
I Changed My Surroundings
I noticed that when I hung out with negative-talkers, no goals in mind friends, my life was at a stale-mate. To further clarify, these friends were not always talking, “down with life,” but were rather more satisfied with the status-quo and content on things the way they were. If you suggested to them that perhaps they think higher and set goals, they wouldn’t say “down with you”. They would just laugh and say “stop dreaming.” They were not dreamers and I was. I had to change my surroundings.
I Changed My Thinking
Our thoughts have a lot, A LOT, to do with where we are in our stages of life. My thought process was re-developed years ago when I realized that I was getting whatever I thought. Good…and bad. If I thought I couldn’t, I didn’t. My life has been totally transformed now that I realize that I have to place significant energy into my thoughts and think positively. If I allow doubt to set in (and it does try to on occasion), then I am doomed. Of course there are brief periods of depression and “woe are me’s,” but for the most part, I embrace everyday with a renewed thought process, approaching each day with an ‘I know I can’ attitude.
I Changed My Attitude
Attitudes count for a lot. Having the right attitude counts for about 90% of an outcome in any particular situation. Attitudes are good or bad. Period. There is no gray area here. When we have a bad attitude, it can be contagious just as it can be to have a positive attitude. I began arming myself with positive thoughts and surrounding myself with positive people so that I could experience a difference in my life. And a difference it was. Attitudes are contagious, so if you put out one, make it a good one so that only good ones come back.
After implementing these three life changes, have I been problem-free? Of course not. But what I am is better able to deal with change by having a different attitude and approach to life’s situations. No more sitting, sulking and blaming. Now I am able to live life to its fullest and live more abundantly!
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This is a great post. A person’s destiny is dependent upon a person’s internal thoughts. The destiny is what you believe is the destiny. If you believe your destiny is to be the CEO of a fortune 500 company, then that is your destiny. Thinking that a supreme force will take you their on its own isn’t helpful. While its definitely awesome to think that, that can’t be your only line of thought. The future resides on your positivity, ability to grow, ability to challenge yourself, ability to communicate, and ability to look into the future as a visionary… see what I mean… Emanuel Delvalle on August 3, 2008 12:49 am
Hello I wanted to add that small or large negative thoughts do manifest themselves faster then positive thoughts. I am in a business that rewards people that have that do not have any small negative thoughts. Whenever, when I have a small negative thought about a situation I find myself experiencing that very negative situation almost immediately. As a result, I become up set, depress, and frustrated. Please let know how I can stop these negative thoughts for becoming realty. Sometime these negative thoughts are just my natural intuition looking out for me.